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The Matter of Divorce

 When to call it quits

When marriages go south, it can be hard to know whether or not your relationship can or even should be salvaged. Maybe your partner cheated on you and you're wondering whether you should forgive them. Or maybe the relationship has turned toxic and you have concerns about neglect or abuse. Regardless of your exact situation, this video by a licensed therapist may offer you some guidance on when to call it quits:



Saving a marriage

Abuse, abandonment, and adultery are all historical reasons to sue for divorce. Now, no-fault divorce laws don't require proof of these things to file. One partner can legally choose to leave the marriage at will. This means that many marriages are now ending that potentially could've worked out. If your marriage is struggling--or even if it's doing okay--you may consider seeking professional guidance to work through things on an individual, spousal, or even family level.

Considerations for children

One of the main concerns people have about divorce is their children. We've all heard the stories about children growing up in broken homes and being scarred for life. In some cases, however, it may be more damaging to the child to stay. This includes situations with abuse or neglect or situations that impose copious amounts of stress on the child based on parental interactions. To learn more about the statistical impacts of divorce on children, watch the following video:


Divorced Parenting

Depending on your exact situation, it may or may not be safe for your child to continue having a relationship with your spouse. This may be something to seek professional advice on if you have concerns. That said, when possible, it is often beneficial for the child to continue having both parents in their life. This can be difficult though as each of you will need to set your personal feelings aside to prioritize the child and their needs:








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